When a socially controversial subject matter is brought into the public, there is often a clash between contrasting opinions surrounding the appropriate ways in getting across the message to students across the nation without causing problems. The topic of “sex” is certainly a victim of this issue. The improper education that children are lacking in homes and school on the topic of “sex” is imposing a hindrance on the lives of many teens who may not be able to do normal activities due to a pregnancy or an STD. As discussed in James Houston’s documentary Let’s Talk About Sex, it is imperative to have an open communication in the homes of families as well as in the buildings of schools about sexual education and the importance of sex safety in order to deduce the number of teen pregnancies and STD’s in America.
In the United States, the majority of teenagers find the topic of sex very awkward to discuss with parents and teachers. The usual lectures are given by adults to young ones about abstaining as long as possible in order to fully prevent any pregnancy or STD. However, this certainly is not the path that most teens follow. In America alone,10000 teens catch a sexually transmitted disease everyday, and 2400 become pregnant. These statistically high numbers are largely due to the lack of communication teens have with their families and teachers regarding sex. In health class, teachers must be careful with what they preach because they know that some students are sexually active while others are not. At home, different families have different religious backgrounds which only stress abstinence, and does not even take into consideration that their children may be sexually active and do not know any other precautions because all they know is sex or abstinence. With these scary statistics continuing to increase, it is important to teach sexual education properly by accommodating for individual, familial, or religious values with accurate fact-based contraception education such as birth control options in order to show teens how to safely be sexually active.
In addition to the high number of pregnancies and STD’s increasing due to the limited discussion occurring between teens and adults, the media plays a large role as well in manipulating the minds of teens and adolescents. Sexual imagery is all around us- on billboards, television, computers, etc. The beautiful models pose in tiny bikinis as they caress a male very seductively. This mean of advertisement conveys a message to the audience that sexual activity makes you “pretty” and socially accepted in the American society. Teens are usually the target market because this exposure to sex-related images drive their raging hormones more than that of a mature adult. With a sexually-driven environment surrounding teens in this country, it is difficult for them to resist what they see based on little information at home and in the classrooms about sex. It is significant for sex to be discussed openly at homes and in school because of today’s liberal environment using seductive photos to advertise products.
Humans have a natural tendency to avoid situations that make them feel out of place and uncomfortable. In America, sex has become an awkward topic of discussion, and parents tend to put off the “talk” in order to avoid the sensitive confrontation with their children. However, this act of refraining from the situation is actually doing more harm than good. The lack of communication is causing a plethora of negative actions such as teen pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. Fighting through an awkward situation is far more beneficial than avoiding one and risking a bad consequence.
The knowledge of sex is a very powerful key to a healthy life. Understanding the options for birth control helps one to take an approach to safer sex. Having that conversation of the “birds and the bees” sounds silly, but certainly makes a huge difference in the life and mindset of teens. If open communication about sex is achieved in the home and in the classrooms, then the birth and STD rates will significantly decrease. Taking the first steps to a clean future starts with a simple dialogue.